the most stupid thing in this world is to expect anything from anyone. You live your life expecting it to be beautiful but it isnt. You expect lady destiny to be kind to you but she doesnt. you expect people around you to be just with you but they're not.
worst of all, if you expect to spend your life with someone, all you get is a package deal. A deal in whinch you are constantly reminded that you are eating out of someone else's pocket (so be financially independent and kindly arrange for your own bread and butter), that your parents didnt give enough to support you for your life(so try and sqeeze the max out of them), that you are no way better